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Throughout high school, you’ve already heard, I had low self-esteem. A low self-perception. I had the excuses, the thing with excuses is that they are lies you tell yourself. Any how, this afternoon I went out for my second ‘yam cha’ [hang out, essentially] session with amongst the most popular guys in my high school.
I think you’re more attractive to people when you’re more attractive to yourself.
Certainly, they may have ulterior motives, but I’m using those motives to my advantage. They are high successful in this network marketing venture - those popular guys - some of them are earning in their tens of thousands. One of them even bought a car with his earnings. They benefit - they get bonuses and ommissions for whatever sales I make. But I benefit because I’m being mentored and trained by the more successful.
Why network marketing? It’s the cheapest way to go into business. Not only that, I have no experience in business and sales - I’m not looking at the profits, I’m looking at the experience I would be getting. Certainly, I wouldn’t be doing this for long, at least not as my main business.
But scale back a bit - how did I get in this ‘in’ crowd? I was simply helping myself - I bumped into one of them back for semester break, started talking and was invited out for to yam cha. If I had adopted the ‘I’ll never get fit’ thinking, I wouldn’t be out there.
Things start falling in place when you help yourself. So help yourself already.
I do read ur blog and am praying for u. U know how to get in touch wif us as and when u need. I pray tat the resolution on reading His word works for u.
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Comment by trylaw — 18 January, 2006 @ 1:47 am