Narcissism
Found this rather interesting write up:
That is, I’m beginning to think that (your average) gay man isn’t really looking for the sort of relationships typified by the “traditional” straight woman-man relationship where romantic love, irrational emotions and mutual dependencies reign supreme.
Jikon Lai isn’t ex-gay, BTW, not even Christian. I’ve never dated before, and more and more it would seem I probably shouldn’t. Heh, no point experimenting the pointless.
Lesbian relationships doesn’t seem much of a panacea either.